Friday, April 1, 2016

The Gossies, LA and Never Giving Up



Hey everyone,

I've been super quiet on here for a number of reasons, main ones being that I've just been up the walls since we hosted our first ever awards show The Gossies 2016.

To say they were a success would be an understatement, they completely superseded all of my expectations, and being honest it really still hasn't hit me how big of a success it actually was.

The wonderful Vogue Williams hosted the awards, which were sponsored by Enhance Medical and UTV Ireland were our official media partners on the night, airing three segments on the awards on their entertainment show The Pulse (which ended up being the most viewed episode ever with 116,000 people tuning in).



When Goss.ie was first born I had the idea for The Gossies, I really felt that Ireland was missing a young, modern but equally classy awards that recognised the best in the Irish entertainment industry as well as introducing new talent into the showbiz world.

I decided in December that I was going to finally do the awards, and that we would do them in February, against the advice of most people I know and peers in my industry.

Everybody said I wasn't giving myself enough time and to wait a year.

I hit the ground running in January, and worked my ass off every single day to secure a venue, get category sponsorship and to ensure nominees were able to come, arrange their transport etc.





I had a skiing holiday right in the middle of organising, and while all my photos on Snapchat, Facebook and Twitter were all of me hitting the slopes, I spent hours every day trying to make everything happen.

I had it in my mind from the beginning that UTV Ireland would come on board, and I didn't tell anyone that I was going to approach them because I knew people would only be negative.

But there was no circumstance in my mind where the first Gossies wasn't going on TV - and they did.

This post is about the reality of organising an award show like this but also to help people realise that anything really is possible when you put your mind to it.

An outsider who doesn't know me would never think in a million years that I could have pulled this off, but that's what people thought when I told everyone I wanted to be a journalist when I was 17, when I wanted to move to Dublin to get a job in a newspaper and when I wanted to start Goss.ie, most people told me not to get my hopes up, but I told myself it would happen and I wouldn't accept anything else.

My amazing Goss Team




The reality of all this, and I mean organising awards, setting up your own business at 24/25, is that yes there is a lot of stress. There are moments that are hard to take, days I don't want to get out of bed, but for all those moments there are thousands more where I feel proud of what I've achieved and I feel driven to achieve even more.

My biggest downfall is probably that I never think anything is enough, so although the last few months have shown Goss.ie to be a success, I will never feel like it's good enough, and that's why I am driven to do more, create more and be a better entrepreneur.

About 5 days before the awards, the day designer Eamonn McGill was doing a fitting with me for the gorgeous dress he made for me, I woke up with a rash all over my body. Turns out it was a stress rash and it only went away about two weeks ago, so it lasted over a month.

I was dealing with so much in my head my body went crazy, and I'll be honest that was absolutely shit and uncomfortable and being in 27 degree heat in LA for a week made it worse.

Red carpets: I was at events every night


But there I was in LA, going to the biggest Oscar parties, hanging out with my favourite people and brining exclusive content to Goss.ie that no other site had.

Anyone that truly knows me knows my love for LA. I previously covered the Oscars for a paper I used to work for, so this time going there and seeing a stand for Goss.ie next to E! News and Access Hollywood was unreal.

Every party, red carpet event we got to was all on the merit of Goss.ie and that's incredible.

Interviews: I spoke to Chris O'Dowd, JJ Abrams and more

One of the videos we shot over in LA with Daisy Ridley (from Star Wars) got nearly 90,000 views, which was bonkers but amazing none the less.

To be able to go to my favourite place in the world because all of my hard work was a dream come true, but I never gave up on my dream, and either should you.

So again for all the lows, the highs are always worth it. You just need to remember your goal no matter how bad of a day you are having.



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The Goss.ie journey is still in it's baby stages, we're only 21 months in business now, and it really is a short time - but I've achieved a lot and hopefully that will sink in soon.

There was a few moments at The Gossies that really have stuck with me, the guest presenters like Roz Purcell, Brendan Courtney and of course host Vogue Williams personally thanking me and my team was pretty overwhelming.

But probably the most important moment of all was when Mary Byrne was belting out A Man's World and I looked around the room and saw everyone singing and dancing and especially my family sitting at their table with my friends and looking so proud.



Any other entrepreneurs out there will know how hard it is to explain to the people closest to you why you are doing something that gives you sleepless nights, weeks with no money, a job that basically takes away your personal life, and can leave you with some really low days.

But that day was a good day, and it made all the hard days worth it. For once my family saw why it is I sit in front of a laptop all day, why I miss some family events, why I have no routine or stability in my life... and they finally got it.

Irish people can be pretty shit at supporting new ideas and ambitious people at the best of times, just don't let it get you down.

I'll still be doing this and driving for bigger and better no matter.

Just go and follow your dreams...

x

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Thursday, January 28, 2016

If They Say It's Impossible Then You're On To A Winner




Hey everybody,

Haven't blogged in a while because things have been hectic in the Goss.ie office, mainly because we are working hard on our first ever awards show The Gossies (#TheGossies2016).

As well as that we were nominated for Media Brand of The Year at the Digital Media Awards.

So for once the last week or two has been a roller coaster of happy emotions and there's more to come too.

It's literally only the last few weeks that family and friends have really started to realise what I'm doing with Goss.ie, why I've been so determined and now people can see my vision.

The Gossies are something I have been planning since the very beginning of Goss and I always wanted it to happen.

I started Goss because I felt there was a gaping whole online for showbiz and entertainment and I thought the same about events and award shows. 

I think everyone really misses The TV Now Awards and The Meteors - it's time to go back to celebrating the world of Irish entertainment and that's what The Gossies are all about.



I can't tell you the amount of people who, when I told them in December I would be doing The Gossies in February, said "it's too rushed", "it won't work", "wait a year", "don't you have enough on your plate?".

And to be honest those kind of attitudes are why people never accomplish their dreams, why business fails and why people are unhappy.

It's fair to say that since Goss went live in June 2014, I have gone against pretty much every advice I was given. Suggestions of walking away from the business mainly, not bothering with the stress of an awards show, selling up the company and starting something else... Every time I heard anything like that I worked harder and harder.

I remember in 2012 when I was nominated for Showbiz Journalist of The Year at the NNI Awards. I was up against some great journalists and Paddy Power put on odds for everyone - mine were so bad and I was he least likely to win in my category.

I was 22, I had only been a Showbiz Journalist in national newspapers for about 16 months and even some of my colleagues bet against me... But me being me I told myself it was possible.



Fast forward to sitting at a table in The Four Seasons Hotel and hearing my name called out - it's still a blur now but it happened, I wanted it and I got it and I worked seriously hard for it.

So here's my point... The more people tell you something is possible, the more you hear "don't", "won't", "can't", "shouldn't" and of course "impossible" then you know you're on to a winner.

There were a few moments last year when I could have taken the easy route and just went back to a normal  life, a normal income, job security... A personal laugh....but I didn't, I struggled and I stressed and I soldiered on and most importantly I was determined to make my company a success.

Anyone that knows me well at this stage knows once I've decided on something I am 100% determined... No matter what obstacle I will make it my mission to achieve my goals and prove myself.

Sometimes it's a personality flaw but in business it's a necessity.

I always, always ask myself "what's the worst that could happen?". And the outcome was never so awful that it wasn't worth trying harder.



In the last week or so a lot of people have been asking how the hell I managed to pull an event together on my own. How I'm going to cover Oscars week in LA...

And as corny as it sounds my answer is always anything is possible!

It's the negative nellys, the doubters, the haters, the non-believers, they are the one who will always remember that dream they once had wondering what if. And I'm so so glad that will never be me.

You can do anything you want in life, anything... Just keep working your ass off.

Ali

X

Wednesday, December 23, 2015

20 Things I Learned In 2015...



I can't believe 2015 is already over, but honestly I'm really relieved.

While some amazing things have happened in 2015 - new starts and exciting chances - some shitty things have happened too - things came to an end, I got sick and I've had some big challenges.

But as I start into the next 20... 2016, I thought I'd list the 20 things I've learnt this year:

1. Everyone Comes Into Your Life For A Reason





This is probably one of the most important things I learned this year, and in my life in general.

It relates to everything from work, relationships, friends and family and it's such an important thing to understand - and I only really believe it this year.

2015 has been a rollercoaster of year for me, and while there were some amazing highs there were substancial lows too, but no one ever wants to talk about that.

Being let down by people closest to you can hurt the most, and I had that a lot this year.

And while that was pretty shit, what I've taken away from 2015 is that bad people in your life will have a positive impact in some way.

I spent a lot of this year angry and upset, and it's probably my biggest regret about 2015, but now I know why it all happened.

So while a friend may have let me down and hurt me, life without them has changed who I am and made me a better person.

While a relationship may have fallen apart and left me upset, that person has inspired me to become a better me in other ways, and now I know what I want.

It's hard to see it at the time, but if you're going through a break-up, having a hard time at work or just falling out with a friend, remember that one day you'll realise why bad things happened and maybe one day you'll thank them for it.

2. Travel Makes Me Ridiculously Happy




I've always had the travel bug really, but it was this year where I realised I need to be travelling at least once a month.

Touching down in a foreign land, understanding new cultures and having a coffee while looking out at a new world, created some of my happiest moments this year.

In 2015 I got to visit London, Malta, Las Vegas and Greece, and 2016 already has me in four different countries in the first three weeks.


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My heart aches when I have to get on a plane and return to Ireland - I love being home but there's nothing like flying all over the world.


3. Money Isn't Everything





Another extremely important lesson I learned this year, was how insignificant money really is.

If you knew how much money I was on before I started Goss, and how much money I pay myself now you would think that I'm crazy - but what I've learnt this year is that as long as you're happy you don't need money.

I used to think I was driven by cash and promotions and bonuses, but really I'm driven by passion.

Sure there's been days where I've questioned my decisions and felt low, but I've never regretted leaving my job to start Goss.

Starting this company and keeping it alive this long will always be one of my proudest achievements in life.

When I'm lying on my death bed I won't be thinking about all the cash I made... I'll be thinking about how happy I felt.


4. You Alone Can Make Yourself Whole


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I just started reading Oprah Whinfrey's book 'What I Know For Sure' and it's confirmed a lot of thoughts I had myself this year.

I think it's really easy (especially for girls) to rely on other halves to make themselves 'feel complete' to wait for their 'knight in shining armour' - but this year I realised you should be able to make yourself whole all by yourself.





I love this famous quote from Carrie Bradshaw in Sex And The City, and I wish more women in particular would think like this.

I think we're getting there now but I see it a lot in my friends too, relationships/men have destroyed some lovely people I know and it's pure madness.

It's easy to feel battered and bruised because of other people's actions, but remember to love yourself - you can focus on loving other people once you've got that sorted.


5. Good Friends Are Priceless





Although I've said that this year I lost some friends, I also realised who my real friends were and that is priceless to me.

While some people have huge groups of friends from school or college - I only have one or two but they are more special to me than 100 people combined.

It's the people who aren't afraid to tell you the truth, the people who won't judge you if you've fucked up, if you've sent that drunken text or gone back one more time or put on way too much fake tan.

Those people are priceless...and I'm lucky to have a few to drink coffee with, sip Prosecco with, cry with, laugh with and call whenever I need them.


6. Trust Your Gut Instincts





This is something I learned this year, and it hasn't been the prettiest lesson I'll tell you that.

I have such strong instincts and while I can look at other people's situations and point out everything that's going to happen, I never trust my own gut.

2015 was really the year that I realised for sure my instinct is always right.

Whether that be about a business deal, a person or a situation, I've yet to prove myself wrong.

One of my main flaws (I have a lot) is that I trust people too easily and I tend to only focus on the good things.

I've already started to feel differently this year and 2016 will be a whole new me.


7. Life Plans Never Work Out





Someone close to me recently asked me "do you ever want to settle down?" - and they seem genuinely really surprised when I said "yes, of course."

I just turned 26 last month, and honestly I am nowhere where I planned to be.

I did always have the dream of running my own business and making X amount of cash so I could retire early - but that was so I could support and raise a family.

When I was a teenager I planned out that I would be engaged by 27, married at 28, pregnant at 29 and Happy Ever After...

I'm nowhere near any of that and that's okay.. My older sister is married, my younger sister has her own house and a serious relationship, but I'm on a different path and this year I realised that's a good thing.

When you're younger you dream of the way you want your life to be, but it doesn't work out for everyone like that.

So if you haven't reached your career goals or relationship goals that's okay, I bet you've achieved something amazing that you're not even thinking of.


8. Your Twenties Are For Being Reckless





Now this honestly is a hard one for me, because I can hardly be 'reckless' when I run a business, have staff and work in the media.

But I have learnt this year to let go a little and just enjoy myself.

With the stresses of being a CEO and an Editor I deserve to let loose, party with my friends and if that results in a hangover so be it - this is the only age I can probably handle it.

So many people love to gossip and talk about people who love to party, but nothing or no one will stop me from having a good time. :)

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I love making spontaneous decisions - like getting this heart tattoo in Derry with my friend Shelia who also got a tattoo.

I had actually wanted this tattoo for ages (drew the little design myself) and it felt right in that moment, in that city.


9. I'm In LOVE With Vegas





I had been to Vegas before, when I was 18 and couldn't drink, but this year I went back with my friend Meghann and I never wanted to leave.

We killed it at roulette, met cool people and danced the nights away.

We missed about two nights sleep, gambled all through the night and all through the mornings and had the complete YOLO mind set.




From seeing Britney in concert to flying through the Grand Canyon at sun rise - I really loved every minute.

As we drove away from the MGM Grand I literally felt sick to my stomach because I didn't want to go...we're already planning our 2016 return now.


10. My Heart Is In LA


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Sticking with my love for the USA, this is the year I finally made myself realise I will forever be a LA girl.

It's always been a dream to live there, but I pushed the idea aside...not anymore.

I'm happiest when I'm there, when the sun is pouring down Sunset Boulevard and I'm chilling with like-minded people.

LA baby...


11. People Will Use And Abuse You






Similar to some of the lessons I've already mentioned, this year has been a tough one on the ole mind and heart.

As I said I'm way too trusting and way too nice to people (despite what some would believe) and that can lead to dangerous situations.

Not only in my personal life but in business life very much so too, some people have motives, some people have an agenda, some people don't have your best interests at heart.

This has pretty much happened to me every single year I can remember, and I'm hoping I've learnt my lesson this time.

In 2016 I'm going to be more cautious about who I let in, who I'm nice to and who I spend time with.

You become the people you spend most of your time with, so choose the right people...


12. I Need To Stand Up To People More





Leading nicely on from number 11, this year like a kick in the stomach I realised I need to be more of a bitch.

Sometimes I let people away with murder to avoid confrontation or to hurt someone's feelings, but 2016 will be very different.

Not only in personal situations, but business too - treat every situation as you would a board room meeting.

Take No Shit.


13. Life Is Fragile



An important lesson for everyone to learn, but 2015 especially taught me how short life is and how grateful we should be to be alive.

From the horrible Berkley tragedy to the Paris Terrorist Attack, the world has been hurting a lot this year.

It made me realise how stupid and small my problems were and helped me re-focus and remember what's really important.

14. I Need A Dog





I've never been more tempted to get a dog than I was in 2015.

The hard thing is I do travel a lot and work crazy hours, so it's probably not the right time, but when I'm around dogs I'm ridiculously happy and calm.

I had some dog hugs just recently with a lovely big dog and I fell asleep on the couch with him for hours.

Maybe I could rent a dog for cuddles once a week?


15. Happily Ever Afters Do Exist





I can't look through 2015 without remembering my sister's wedding.

It's been the biggest event to bring all of our families together, and as a result I spent more time with my sisters and parents this year than I have in a long time.

Not only did I love being around my family more, but my heart literally swelled and I lost my breath when I saw how in love my sister and her now husband are, how much he cares about her and how happy they are.

I loved being bridesmaid, and hopefully I can do the same again soon for my other sister.

#RelationshipGoals to say the least...


16. I Will Never Ever Stop Taking Selfies



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If you thought 2015 was the year of my selfies you're wrong because I'm still going to be Tweeting, Instagramming and now Snapchatting (alir23) selfies.

I honestly can't tell you why I do it or what drives my need to do it but fuck it it's fun and to be honest I know it annoys people so sometimes I do it more because of that.

You'll be seeing a lot more selfies in 2016..

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17. I Love Living In A House




I've spent the last few years living in apartments, but this year I moved into a house and I loved it.

It sounds so silly but I've loved having a stairs and a garden, and I want to stay in houses for the next while.

Dublin is my home but I guess it doesn't feel so 'homely' when you're in an apartment. Just need that dog now to make my home complete...


18. I'm A Performer





For some reason I never used to really tell people that I acted or sang or danced or whatever, when I moved back to Dublin to start my journalism career, I just kind of left it out.

But every morning when I walk to work I blast music in my ears and I choreograph full on dances in my head, I write stories, I direct movies...then I walk into my office sit down and start my day.

2015 was the first year I didn't get to do more acting work and focus on music, and it broke my heart.

I'm already booked into the studio for early 2016 and hopefully I'll find time for some more acting too.


19. I Need To Take More Time For Me





I do say this every year, but in 2016 I hope to take more time out for myself.

I've always had something on the go, whether an acting class, music or even the gym, but this year I had nothing and no time.

Next time I want to get into meditation and yoga, and I've just joined a gym.

I haven't had a full night's sleep in a few months now and I want that to change next year.


20. Your Health Is Your Wealth





Last but by God no means least.... one of the most difficult lessons I learnt in 2015 was to look after myself.

Last Christmas I ended up in hospital in a very, very serious situation, and to this day I don't know what would have happened if I didn't get to A&E when I did.

Not everyone knows, but I am a Type 1 Diabetic and it can be very difficult to deal with.

2015 was the year I really lost control with my illness, and by February I was back in hospital again, this time for a week, and struggling to get stories up and edited from my hospital bed.

My family were upset, I was devastated to be back again and terrified about the future.

But as well as 2015 being the year I lost control it's also the same year I took control back.


I did an intense new course that helps manage my illness, and it has changed things for the better.

I'm not going to lie I still struggle with it, I still feel sick a lot of the time, but I'm taking it day by day.

It's easy to get lost in work or your personal life, but this year I realised you have to look out for number one...not only physically but mentally too.



If any of you have had a difficult year and feel a bit lost, just remember you're not alone, rules are made to broken, plans don't work out and most importantly...everything happens for a reason.

Merry Christmas 
x

Sunday, November 22, 2015

A special thanks to the haters



Honestly I have dealt with haters all of my life...

Pretty much since Junior Infants I have had issues with people, fallen out with groups, been the victim of bullying - and when I was younger I thought that would all end as soon as I became an adult.

Unfortunately it seems to get worse, especially when you go out into the working world and especially in an extremely competitive industry like the one I am in.

Embracing haters and not giving a shit


I first noticed it when other people in my field didn't seem too keen on me when I started out as a journalist (aged 21), and that increased significantly when I won Showbiz Journalist of The Year at the NNI's back in 2012.

I've always been the type of person that if I admire someone (man or woman) I want to learn from them, I aspire to be them, but I've found most people in that situation just want to take the bitch down.

It's really sad that people feel that way, and I feel sorry for anyone who does, but what's even sadder is that I used to let it get to me, and finally I've turned all the bad into good.



I started Goss.ie 18 months ago and I've probably experienced the same negativity in that space of time that I felt in a school yard as a child, isolated, ganged up on and self-conscious.

So many people have an opinion on the business, competitors have tried to intimidate me and my social media channels seem to be the topic of conversation quite often - Twitter and Snapchat mainly.

Don't get me wrong I have some amazing people in my life, and friends I couldn't live without, people who constantly keep me going, but for every genuine person there are about five haters out there.

They tell me it's jealousy, that people don't like success - and especially when there's a young girl behind a company.

But I've seen this happen in Ireland a lot - and not just with women, people just love being negative, hoping people will fail, Tweeting negative crap without even thinking.



In the past I've struggled with haters, caring about what other people think, how my decisions will be perceived, but recently I've started to use hate to spur me on.

I know a lot of people read this blog, and probably for the wrong reasons - to share it with colleagues, to bitch, to moan, but I want to say thanks for building up the stats for me :).

You see it's so easy to wallow when people are being negative about you or gunning for you to fail, but I've decided to embrace the hate and turn it into pure motivation.

Every negative word spoken about me fuels me to win better and harder that day at work.



Every bitchy comment about my lifestyle spurs me to have even more fun, and share even more photos and videos doing it.

Every time you share my articles to slag them off, you are literally putting money into my pocket.

Every question over my business and doubts about it's success makes me sell more ads and make more money.

So thank you haters, I love you (you were always going to hate this one anyway).

Ali

x

Dreaming, Believing, and SERIOUSLY Werking...


Saturday, August 29, 2015

This week four years ago I graduated but work is really where I got my education



So it was pointed out to me a few days ago that it was this week four years ago that I graduated from University.

I was actually gobsmacked because it feels like I graduated five or six years ago.

I wanted to do a post on the difference between what you learn from school/university from what you learn in work (werking life).


Printing Press


I started my werking life when I was 15 - I sat in a printing press with about four other people and we put a farmers journal together, I mean physically we stapled it together, put it in an envelope and sent it off.

While my 'education' started at around 4 years old, I feel like I only started learning what has shaped me and my career when I started working.

Shop Life



After working in the printing press I worked in a local shop - I unpacked things, I filled out shelves, I mopped the floors, I worked on the deli and I worked on the till, I was still 15.

I didn't like my manager, he was quite mean to me so my first lesson I ever learned about work (and I've never forgot) is a negative attitude creates a negative work place which means a negative place for customers.

I.E be mean to your staff and they'll feel like crap, their performance will be crap and then your product/service will be crap also.

I can remember more about about my jobs than I can remember school or subjects or assignments I did... and genuinely keeping your staff motivated and being nice to people is number 1.

Bar Work


When I was 16 I started doing lots of bar work (totally illegal) but I was a bar manager at one stage as well as normal bar staff.

That went on for a year or two and involved travelling to different counties as well. The tips were handy and I thrived on the busy atmosphere and just the absolute craic we all used to have behind the bar.

It was working behind the bar that made me realise I was a people person - I was able to put on the charm (I got lots of tips).

I also loved managing things - being in charge of the bar, in charge of tables, setting up corporate boxes, dealing with high end clients, it all came natural to me.

To be a good bar person you need to have good chat, and my bubbly personality paid off (literally).

Leaving Cert



I did take a slight break from working then - and that was for my Leaving Cert.

I changed to a grind school (Limerick Tutorial College) to focus only on studying, and that included 9am starts and 10pm finishes Monday - Friday.

I did some bar work through the holidays but that was it.

I have to say I loved my time at LTC and it was probably the only time I was ever happy in school - and it was there I realised my love for English as well as Business.

The second I finished my Leaving Cert I was looking for work - and it was slim pickings.

I remember I even worked in a chipper for a few days, I was up for any challenge.

Early Learning Centre



But soon I had another job - this time it was working for the Early Learning Centre.

Having 'the chat' was handy here as well because I had targets for selling products - yes children's toys but adults are the ones buying so the charm is important.

I loved being at the front of the shop talking to customers as well as setting up little displays, and every week we had a Product of The Week and there were incentives for who sold the most (of course I won that a few times).

The most hellish part of that job was that every Friday at 6am I had to take in a delivery with another member of staff - it took about an hour to lift heavy wooden toys up two flights of stairs and then I had to pack them away in a very specific order in the stock room.

Soon I was cashing up at night, opening up in the morning and locking up - again I was drawn in to roles with responsibility and I loved it - I was 17 at this stage.

That delivery every Friday became even more hellish when I started college because Thursday nights was the official going out getting pissed student night - so 9 times out of 10 I was extremely hungover or maybe still a bit drunk.

I found that a lot of people in college didn't even have jobs, so while people spent their evenings and weekends doing projects or just relaxing I was always, always working.

Starting in UL



So let's talk about college then....

I always knew I wanted to be a writer, since I was about 5 or 6. I wrote my first book of short stories around that age (which I still have) and I was constantly writing poems and songs and stories.

But when I was studying in LTC I got the notion that I really wanted to study Law. Once I had a year where I wasn't working and I was only focusing on my education - that's where my head was at.

And I got the points for Law in my mocks and I was on the way.

Unfortunately I got very sick around the actual Leaving Cert which led to me getting lower points and I remember feeling devastated.

I walked down the steps of LTC and genuinely dropped to my knees and started crying because I knew I was under the points for Law.

Awkwardly I had agreed to work in the Early Learning Centre that day, so I spent my time standing at the till balling crying as customers tried to buy toys around me (sorry about that).

So I was offered English and New Media in the University of Limerick.

I remember getting the pack sent to my house and AGAIN bawling my eyes out. I was set on law and I didn't want to write or be a journalist anymore.

My mum suggested I take a year out and work and then go to college - but I knew once I started working full time I would never go back to education.

So I took a chance and I joined the course - even though I already hated the idea of it.

Joining O2



The first few months I still didn't know if I like it. I enjoyed my English Literature modules and Media was cool but I had no real passion yet, then my job in O2 came along.

To this day O2 was one of my favourite if not my favourite company ever to work for.

I plagued them with my CV, mainly because their call centre was right beside UL but also because I was sick of my Friday morning deliveries in the Early Learning Centre.

Eventually I got an interview (one interview I thought) which actually turned out to be five different interviews with different managers, different levels of managers and different departments.

I had just turned 18 and I remember being one of the youngest people there on the day, but I absolutely loved it.

As well as one on one interviews we did group assignments together - and honestly that's where I always stand out.

I did a part time Youth Leadership course in secondary school as well and I always naturally fall into the role of leader.

Delegation, responsibility, coming up with ideas - I jump at all of those three things.

So I got the job, which initially was meant to be answering phone calls from Pay As You Go customers and helping them with Top Up queries or networking issues.

We did a six week training course and at the end a few people were picked to work for the business team instead - working on Corporate Accounts and Bill Pay (I was picked).

Easier job, more responsibility, less screaming...

I'm pretty sure I did over 20 hours a week there - while still in UL and these were the days of overtime so I used to sometimes do full time hours in there.

There was also some incentives in there and I always went for them, I was making serious money for a college student.

Even during exam times I would have my English Literature novels stacked up in front of me in the call centre and I would be highlighting passages and writing essays while on the phone to customers.

Working in O2 has heavily influenced me and has led to alot of the attributes I have as a CEO today.

O2 was the Google of my time - they had career paths, graduate programmes, a stellar HR team, so many opportunities to grow and just a great attitude. If you killed it in work they rewarded you.

San Diego



At this stage I was so focused on O2, I had all my friends and most of my relatives switched to the network, I loved everything about it.

But I had to start thinking about where I wanted my career to go.

My seniors had talked to me about staying on in O2 and working in their advertising graduate programme, and doing a master in advertising and became a Creative Director.

It was coming to the end of my first year in college and I my friends and I decided to go on a J1 - but I was terrified of letting go of O2.

So I told them I would be moving to San Diego for four months and they dealt with it really well and promised me they would take me back (and they did).

Over in San Diego I actually worked too, I was a waitress in a place called The Treehouse which was in the San Diego Zoo.

Out of a group of about 15 of us me and one other girl were the only two to get jobs. 

I did have money saved from O2 though but my brain was always on working.

A few weeks into California though I was sick of everyone else having no jobs and I felt I was missing out, so I quit the waitress gig.

I did love it but this summer needed to be about having fun. And I did. I went to Vegas, Mexico and had lots of ups and downs but it was one of the best summers of my life.

Work life and University are both to thank for that.

University because you have to be a student to do the J1 and work because that's what gave me the money to go there.

So I returned to Ireland then and back to college, I was in 02 straight away and the first semester was fine.

The Limerick Post



Then after Christmas I needed to complete a placement.

During my course we had to do a minimum of six months working somewhere, and while most people went off to Spain to teach English, I wanted to keep working in O2.

By pure chance my dad ended up doing a job for the editor of the Limerick Post and being the natural networker he is (that's where I get it from) my dad took his card and said he had a daughter interested in writing.

So a week later I was in the Limerick Post being told there was no position for me and they didn't have the time to teach someone.

In the meantime I had been putting the Co-Op office off saying I had a position (even though I was meant to start in two days).

I told the editor to let me work for just one week - and let me sink or swim.

I got my foot in the door got into deep water and I didn't sink...and thankfully I made the Co-Op start date just on time.

At the same time as all this I kept on my job at O2. So Monday to Friday I would work in the Limerick Post - writing stories, interviewing politicians, business owners, writing features (even motoring), going to events and much more. 

That was 9 - 5.30 every day and then three evenings a week I would work 6.30- 10.30pm in O2 as well as working there every weekend.

Can I just say again I was making a hell of a lot of money then when I was a student....

It was working in the Limerick Post that 100% kickstarted my passion for journalism and I ended up staying there for eight months, and I loved every minute.

As the placement came to an end, college was starting back in two weeks and I was devastated. I had learned more there in my eight months then I felt I would ever learn in University.

Even my editor then told me there was no point in returning to college because you're either born a journalist or not - and the only way to learn and grow is by working.

I was so sad to be leaving and I knew there and then that I had a passion for journalism, but my business and sales side was still buzzing.

Promotion to Sales



I returned to college and in the meantime I heard of a sales position opening up in O2.

It was a part time position but mainly week days and some weekends - as a student that seemed difficult but my manager encouraged me to go for the job.

At this stage I was a 19-year-old college student in third year, and abut 20 people in there went for the job.

There was two positions going and once again about five interviews.

Somehow I flew through the interviews and I was doing a trial week alongside 9 other people who were also up for the position - again only two of us would get the job.

Everyone on the sales time were well into their 20s,30s and 40s and they all had years of sales experience.

The job entailed getting O2 customers to renew their contract and also there was a huge push on getting customers to set up a broadband account (it was brand new then).

Everything had commission on top - so getting someone to renew was one amount, buy a phone another and broadband was the most.

We were given targets during our test week and I beat them all.

And it wasn't an easy job. This was 2008/2009 the recession was starting to hit hard and no one had any money - plus it was all cold calling.

The phone would ring and I wouldn't even know who the customer was until they answered the phone - because everything was set up digitally.

But I called them telling them 1. They had a problem (wrong package, old phone, bad internet). 2. I had the solution (new package, new phone, new broadband) and 3. We value you as a customer (I've called you to sort this out all over the phone).

To me it came naturally - and a week later I got the job.

So at this stage I was going to a lecture in the morning and then going into work for the day, and when I say I made a lot of money before in college here at this sales job I made as much as a full time position if not more.

The commission was ridiculous and then I started winning Sales Person of The Month awards - that was nice.

One day I was given cake and a glass of champagne and then told I could take a half day.

So again, working in O2 hugely shaped me. 

At one point because I was selling so well, a manager asked me would I write up a sheet of instructions and phrases, to show other people working there what they should say to customers and how they should handle situations.

They ended up using that call sheet for a long time - even long after I left.

Living in Italy



Because I was still in University though I had another thing I had to complete - my Erasmus.

This is the first and only time I didn't work. I ended up living in a tiny town outside of Bologna for six months where literally no one spoke English and I didn't have a word of Italian - so there was nowhere I could work.

I got a small Erasmus grant and lived off that - eventually I learned Italian but not fluent enough to hold down a job.

So for those six months I got to focus on my education again - although that didn't really happen. I didn't go to most of my classes - and my French class was taught through Italian so I didn't understand a word.

Instead I found my love for travelling again. I loved every second of San Diego and I loved Italy just as much.

I went to Rome twice, Verona, Florence, Venice, Milan, Rimini - everything was just a train ride away.

Obviously University again was to thank for that because without the Erasmus I never would have lived in that small town and had the experiences I had.

When I returned to Ireland again the recession had got so much worse - and O2 couldn't take me back because there was no money for jobs - I was devastated.


Vodafone & SPIN Southwest



But I got out there with my CV and went looking for work. Really quickly I got a job in Vodafone - another customer care call centre.

This was dealing with Vodafone internet at home only so slightly different. It was a company that was being outsourced by Vodafone and they were a struggling start up - they honestly didn't know what they were doing.

I ended up helping to train most of the staff and again I actually wrote all the call sheets, as well as so many other things (I was only 20).

That company was a mess and I was working over 40 hours a week sometimes (yes I was still in college).

That was probably my least favourite place to work because the staff were so un-motivated and I was doing so much for little return.

While I was there I also got a job in Spin Southwest as a News Reader and Broadcast Assistant.

So again I was going to lectures then going to either of those jobs.

But Spin Southwest is where I found my love for journalism again. We had to research all our own news segments and they had a showbiz roundup as well - I had always been obsessed with celebrity culture so this was my favourite part.

I worked there for a year and I loved being in the entertainment industry, I thought about going into programming and presenting a show - I wanted to do it all.

Miss Red Blog



Because I loved writing the showbiz stories I decided to start up a showbiz blog - originally called Maggie Red then Miss Red.

And the name was because I didn't want anyone to know I was the one writing it. Perez Hilton had started around that time and I wanted to do an Irish version.

I got some really cool interviews on the site for such a new thing (blogs really didn't exist back in 2010) but I managed to get Laura Whitmore, Vogue Williams etc.

So I was working in Vodafone, working in Spin Southwest, updating my blog nearly every hour with stories and going to college.

I used to put everything on the blog - I had a 7am post that went through the weather around the country plus the top entertainment stories and then I covered breaking stories all through the day.

It was creating this job that got me my first job in a national newspaper - The Herald.

But all this time I was still going to lectures and it was coming up to my final exams.

And don't get me wrong I did love college, certain subjects in particular have helped me in my career as well.

E.G we did a Technical Writing course which included created your own flash ads as well as creating a website - things that were vital to me setting up Goss.ie.

Studying English Literature as well opened me up to a world of new words and understanding and stream of consciousness and critical thinking.

And through one module in particular Sociology of The Media I became a huge critical thinker and if anything it made me critical of the media industry - but that was an amazing outlook to have.

My Final Year Project was titled 'Journalistic Pressures In The Newsroom' and I compared my time in SPIN with my time in the Limerick Post and spoke in depth about newsworthiness, something I am still always trumping on about today - again I was only 20 then.

Most people in my course had never even had part time jobs or any experience in media and my project was one of a kind - to the point where I was asked to do a research masters.

But as usual my mind was on work - and before my final exams had even begun I got my job in the Herald.

Obviously I've talked a lot on this blog about the last four years and working in different publications - but it's interesting to look back on my college years and see what really influenced me.

I get a lot of emails from aspiring journalists about which course to do, what to put on the CEO etc, and while I always suggest UL because I did love New Media and English - it's also because I had an Erasmus and Placement during my time there, so I got to learn in different ways.

However I will always say that the number 1 thing is to start working in the media now. Whether you're 17 or 27 do some research work for a radio station, if you're in college work on the magazine or radio, or create a media campaign for someone being nominated for the Student's Union.

But I have taken people on and will continue to hire people who don't have a third level degree but maybe they've done some bit of a media course or they just have a blog.

A well written blog is good enough for me to at least meet someone for an interview.

And when I look at CVs I look at their time in college and whether they worked or not - it's so important to me. Because you can't teach work ethic, and you won't know how far you are willing to go to get work done until you've been pushed to your limit.

It's only in the last year that I've realised how important all those part time roles were, the times I worked two jobs, the promotions I got and all the little jobs in between.



Being a CEO and running a business does require some natural leadership skills but understanding how a business is run and how important it is to focus on motivation and staffing, getting sales, and working on the overall vision - most of that came from my working experience not from college.

I loved University for so many reasons, and at some point I would love to go back and do a masters so of course I see value in education and specifically learning how to do research and understanding critical theory.

Basically...


I'll leave it on this note - since leaving college no one has ever asked me my QCA (results) nor have they asked me what I got in my leaving cert.

When it comes to this industry you are as good as your last piece of work, your last business, your last idea.

So if you want to write - write, if you want to set up your own business - do it. Don't get bogged down about your CAO, your modules, what courses you want, your lack of experience...if you work hard enough you'll get where you want to be.

I spent four years in college, but I've definitely learned more in the last four years working in this industry then any lecturer or assigned book could ever have taught me...

Ali
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